Friday, March 30th


brag alert, ecetera

I have parent teacher meetings at the girls’ school this fortnight. This is when parents sit with the teachers, usually the principal teacher for each grade, to talk about their child’s semester results. I really like that I can go in and talk with the teachers. I guess you could do that anytime during the semester but teachers are usually so busy I always think I get a better result if I just wrote out my questions and then presented it to them on the night. Having homeschooled our children I am more thoughtful about the teachers now and respectful of their time; even the crappy ones. Because I was a crappy teacher! Both girls are doing very well and we couldn’t be prouder of them. I don’t often brag about my children but they have all, even Christian, done very well in school. Françoise is top of her grade again. She also did very well in the brevet blanc, which is a practice exam for exiting ninth grade (highschool in France begins in tenth grade). I don’t know if they present the top students in the states—I know we did when we went to school; and that for the most part they were students whom everyone liked because they were good (as Quintilian is known to describe “good” as). Anyway, everyone here knows who the top students are and I think my daughter is deserving of that title. :) One might think that that was intellectual elitism and maybe it is. But money can’t buy one a degree here because education is free (or rather it’s paid by the tax payer unless one sends their children to a private school in which case it will set you back 20 euros a month per child). Not that I think degrees are everything but it doesn’t hurt to have one still. Why do I even mention this? Because I see too many students entering college, specifically in the states, that aren’t prepared for college work. Is it a shame to repeat a grade? Is it a shame to not have gone to college because one may either not choose to go, but more especially because one is not prepared for it? Does one really deserve an A grade if what they put into their work was less than mediocre? Does one even have to be entertained in class! There is also no such thing as social promotion from one grade to another. If you don’t do well in your studies (it’s the same in New Zealand for highschool), you repeat the grade again like what I would have had to do in 11th grade (I finished school in 11th grade). When I went to school I knew many that redoubled. I knew a few that tripled. Everyone may have chuckled about those who tripled a grade but the few that had to, and chose to go back and repeat, have gone on to being very productive citizens. To redouble a grade in France is not uncommon, in fact many do. If you don’t do well, you repeat. I find it interesting though that the only ones complaining about how strict and dry everything is here are those from the states. But what I am in awe about is that students don’t think they’re stupid like how they would feel back in Texas. They just work harder next time round. It’s not to say that there aren’t any students that do stupid things because there are. Education in France isn’t perfect but there are things about it that I like still.



4 Responses to “brag alert, ecetera”

  1. Terina Says:

    i never knew that about the french school system. i knew that it was free though. even college. we lived not far from La Fac in pau. it was fun to have lots of college students around us. again, i love the picture. i get transported back to france for a few minutes…

  2. amity Says:

    I am very happy for the kids to excel in France! You have right to brag and feel proud.

    I enjoyed reading what you wrote about repeating grades. As an educator, I feel that in our system in Maine, it is part of the culture to coddle and help kids feel good but not necessarily produce good habits that will serve them all their lives. I have seen kids promoted that really got away with doing very little, and it hurts every time to see this because later in life they will still have that mentality and it is going to come back and bite them!

  3. calandria Says:

    interesting post. Congrats again to Francoise!

    Just yesterday it was announced here in mexico that there will be no more repeating of grades under sixth because it is damaging to a child’s self esteem. in the u.s., back when children did reapeat grades it for sure branded them as a dunce. but from what you say, i can see the benefits. especially if it is fairly common and carries no major stigma.

    i like amity’s comment and agree totally. there are so many smart, creative kids who are unprepared for college because they were able to glide by in grade school without doing any work. they never learn those good habits. i’ve been thinking about that a lot lately because of some tendencies i see in certain littles who shall remain unnamed. :-)

    what are you talking about that you were a crappy teacher? please! you must have imparted something great to them if they are doing so well now. but maybe i know what you mean. i think being the teacher sometimes made it hard for me to be a good mother.

  4. Montserrat Says:

    Congrats to all your children for doing so well! I agree with Calandria that you must have done quite a bit of good while you were home schooling them. I too feel that some days I’m either a good teacher but an awful mother or vice versa. Can’t seem to find the right balance, you know?

    I was one of those that sailed through school without really trying. I’m grateful for the two years I was home schooled before going to college because it prepared me for the experience.

    I can already see the result of kids being coddled too much, being let off easy, etc. I call it the ‘Give Me” generation.


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